You can have a massage during your period, and many people find it helps with cramps, lower back ache and the general heaviness that comes with it. There is no medical reason to cancel. Practical considerations include being more sensitive to pressure, possibly feeling more bloated, and simply whether you feel like it. Therapists deal with this constantly and think nothing of it.
Key takeaways
- There is no medical reason to cancel
- Menstruation is not a contraindication to massage, and no qualified therapist will decline on that basis.
- It often helps cramps and back ache
- Lower back and abdominal discomfort respond well to gentle work and heat.
- You may be more sensitive to pressure
- Pain thresholds fluctuate through the cycle, so ask for lighter pressure if you need it.
- Abdominal massage is optional
- Some find it soothing for cramps, others do not want it at all. Either is fine and you should say which.
- You do not have to mention it
- Though it helps the therapist adjust pressure and choose oils, and they genuinely will not care.
- Practical worries are unfounded
- You keep your underwear on, you are draped throughout, and therapists have seen it all before.
- Severe period pain warrants a GP visit
- Pain that stops you functioning is not something to manage with massage alone.
Can you have a massage?
Yes. Menstruation is not a contraindication to massage, it appears on no list of reasons to postpone, and no qualified therapist will decline to treat you because of it.
This question comes up often, usually driven by embarrassment rather than any medical concern. It is worth saying plainly: therapists treat menstruating clients every single week. It is entirely unremarkable to them, in the same way that body hair, a rumbling stomach and falling asleep are unremarkable.
The only real question is whether you feel like having one, which is personal and perfectly legitimate either way.
Does it help period pain?
Many people find it does, and the reasons are straightforward.
- Lower back ache. Frequently accompanies menstruation and responds well to conventional lower back and hip work.
- Cramping. Gentle abdominal massage, particularly with warmth, eases cramping for some people in the same way a hot water bottle does.
- General tension. The irritability and tension that often accompany a period respond to the same relaxation effect as any stress, discussed in massage for anxiety.
- Sleep. Frequently disrupted around menstruation, and often improved by a session.
- Bloating and fluid retention. Common premenstrually, and one of the situations where lymphatic drainage can help.
What massage is not is a treatment for the underlying cause of period pain. Severe pain, particularly if it is worsening or affecting your ability to function, warrants proper medical assessment.
Practical considerations
You may be more sensitive. Pain thresholds fluctuate through the menstrual cycle, and many people report being more sensitive to pressure around and during menstruation. If you normally have firm deep tissue work, consider asking for slightly lighter pressure, or booking a relaxing treatment instead.
Bloating. Lying face down can be uncomfortable if you are bloated. Say so and the therapist can adjust positioning or spend less time prone.
Underwear stays on. As it does normally. You are draped with a towel throughout, and only the area being worked on is uncovered. If you are worried about anything practical, our guide to what to wear to a massage explains how draping works.
Timing. Some people avoid days one and two and book later in their period, when discomfort has eased. Others find the first day is exactly when they most want a massage. Neither is more correct.
Cancelling. If you simply do not feel like it, that is a perfectly good reason to rearrange, and no therapist will require an explanation. Give reasonable notice as you would for any cancellation.
Do you need to tell the therapist?
You do not have to, and if you would rather not, nothing about the session will go wrong.
That said, mentioning it is useful for three practical reasons: the therapist can moderate pressure if you are more sensitive, they can ask whether you want abdominal work included or avoided, and if they are an aromatherapist they may select oils accordingly, since clary sage and geranium are traditionally used for menstrual discomfort.
If saying it out loud feels awkward, you can simply write it on the health form, or say something general such as asking for lighter pressure than usual. A good therapist will not press for detail.
What you should absolutely not do is cancel out of embarrassment, or worse, spend the hour tense and unable to relax. Therapists genuinely do not care, and saying so is not politeness.
The best treatments
| Treatment | Why it suits |
|---|---|
| Hot stone massage | Sustained warmth, which many people find the most helpful element |
| Swedish massage | Moderate, comfortable, whole body |
| Aromatherapy | Oils can be selected for menstrual discomfort |
| Reflexology | Clothed apart from shoes, and no pressure on the abdomen or back |
| Indian head massage | Fully clothed, seated, short |
| Lymphatic drainage | Helpful for premenstrual bloating and fluid retention |
| Deep tissue | Possible, but consider lighter pressure than usual |
The full comparison is in 18 types of massage explained.
When to see a GP
Massage is a comfort measure. See your GP if you have:
- Period pain severe enough to stop you working or carrying out normal activities
- Pain that is getting worse over time
- Very heavy bleeding, or bleeding that soaks through protection hourly
- Bleeding between periods or after sex
- Periods that have suddenly changed in pattern
- Pain during sex, or when passing urine or stool during your period
- Difficulty conceiving alongside painful periods
Conditions including endometriosis, adenomyosis and fibroids are common, frequently under-diagnosed, and treatable. Painful periods are not something you simply have to manage.
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This article is researched by the Massages Bristol editorial team using NHS guidance, professional body standards and published research, and is checked against the practice of the qualified therapists listed in our Bristol directory. It is reviewed and updated when guidance or standard practice changes. It is general information, not medical advice: speak to your GP if you have a health condition that may affect treatment.